I trusted her and we went almost a full year with no problems but she knew I would not approve a relationship with a close friend so she did it behind my back. BTW, while it sound hot to have your wive taken by friends, it does not go like you think. If they do, are you going to say "but you can't, it was a rule"?
They think less of you and call your wife a slut behind your back. Get real, you can HOPE they don't, and they can go into it not wanting/looking for it, but past that it is a stupid rule.
Vastly better, in my view, to simply clarify what true love in a marriage is: actions and commitment. Realizing this, in advance, the hotwife can understand that her wild emotional excitement is simply a crush, which would fade like any other once subjected to the rigors of a true relationship. If they do, are you going to say "but you can't, it was a rule"?
Get real, you can HOPE they don't, and they can go into it not wanting/looking for it, but past that it is a stupid rule.
I make love to the women I am with the same way I do with my wife and sometimes even beyond that.
I am not a fan of rules in most things which is why I seldom join organizations and work on my own from home.
We don't have any except that my hubby wants me to have fun So we were discussing "rules" that husband's have for their wives before they go out as "hotwives" and we've never had any that we don't agree on but most have to do with safety and where I will be at a given time.
As far as other things that I can do while I am out... I like a lot of foreplay and often would put off sex with the wives for a few dates until they were crazy with lust.Caught her with another guy even though we had an open relationship.She just did not feel that it was a big deal anymore and not telling me was no big deal because she got tired of having me tell her who she could have sex with or not. My first and only time I was cuckolded ended when my cuckoldress asked my friends to gang bang her.Better to acknowledge that she will likely experience some degree of "puppy love", "crush", or "new love energy".Being prepared for it, it will not come as a shock or surprise when it happens, or to be confused by it and allow it to guide her actions.My best friend had a fantasy about his wife and his boss. What his wife, the mother of his two kids and woman who never kept secrets from him, did was to keep having sex with her boss during the day.