when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.8.Allow your woman to When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Fill her soul everyday…learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. To carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul.Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.9. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.14.
Gerald Rogers’ article stirred a wide variety of feelings among people across the globe. We read letters from women in Malaysia comforting women in England.
The unity and compassion among people which this article brought forth was a beautiful experience to witness. One common idea reverberated among many of the healthy responses: If we make the conscious decision to daily place our spouse’s desires and needs above our own, and that’s reciprocated, the marriage will succeed. The advice in this article can be applied to both genders. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it.
Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship.
Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.18.
She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)15.
Be vulnerable…You don’t have to have it all together. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward.
SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back.
Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.4.
Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.5.
It’s not your job to change or fix her Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.
You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today.