You might strike up a conversation that leads to something more.You already have a natural built-in network of dozens or hundreds of family and friends – and all of them know older men who you might not have met yet.
Most single guys are like you – they have a lot of different things in life to keep them busy, whether that’s work or family, grandkids, pets, hobbies or other interests. Don’t assume that you won’t have anything in common with men your age.Stop the negative self-talk – if you believe that it’s impossible to find good single men over 60, you’ll probably prove yourself right!Interesting men are out in the world doing interesting things, not waiting patiently for you to appear in their lives.So, the secret is to do those things that you love, knowing that the men you will meet there at a minimum like doing what you do. Failing that direct approach, here are a few other ideas for finding these mysterious older men.For example, sign up for a book club, wine club, yoga class, outdoors adventure club, movie club, or join a church or spirituality group or political activism group. Go to conferences with common themes of interest to older people – AARP Life 50 events, for example.
Or volunteer in your community for a favorite cause.
If you are looking to develop a relationship with a man in your sixties, you have to know where to look.
They are not hiding, but they are certainly are not going to come knocking on your door.
However, every time we try to stay pure we end up slipping up.
What makes matters worse is that I am currently four hours away at school and every time we see each after being apart a week or two (even when we have had full intentions of not being sexual) we end up falling into our old habits.
Often the best way to meet new friends is to start by sharing a common interest and learning from each other. The most appealing older men aren’t stuck at home – they are often travelling and doing things they love in places they love.