That's why they invented platonic friends:)vvvvv Amen, DJ Chickie:) ^5^^I'm with Sepia - if attraction's not there in the first couple minutes, it's not ever happening.If it is there it may grow stronger over time, but if it's not it will go nowhere.Hey but then again..these are just my thoughts...i am an ugly mofo so I don't care! I don't understand..profile says you don't have children.
But I do think it depends how unattracted you feel in the first place.If you really do not like the look of someone, then it would be hard to get over that even if they are really nice.I don't care what we say..if a person is just not down right U. A lot of us worry about how we look when we are out.We also worry about how the person we are with looks.Also, I think if you're with a girl and she passes your "looks test", when a relationship develops, her looks can get better to you, because overall she's more attractive. I think we all have to have some level of attraction.
When it comes to a girl in your situation, it may have been that she would feel guilty by not "giving it a chance", ya know? There are those of us who are stupid and think that if we meet someone and we don't want to jump their bones at the word hi then there is not attraction.I have been in that situation for 10 years , tell you a short story ,met a woman who then fell pregnant ,didnt want an abortion , and 10 years later i have 2 gorgeous female twins.For 10 years we have been together and it has had its ups and downs ,the only reason i stayed was due to the emotional attraction and that i can say honestly its has screwed me up .I won't date someone I don't ever want to sleep with, and if I don't in the first 10 minutes I never will... Most of the time when I am attracted to someone strongly, its after getting to know their charming personality.Call it a high school mentality if you want to, but at least in high school it was cut and dry, people try to analyze it too much these days, and there's really no more to it than there used to be. The catch is knowing which one you are, and working with it. As they start to impress me more with their humor, compassion, wit, and all that other good stuff, I get to that point of being mesmerized. Not attractive in the conventional sense, but I can see how a lot of ladies think he is attractive from his persona. I was never initially attracted to my ex, but he grew on me or rather pestered the hell out of me and I fell for his charm.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.