When a guy lacks the confidence to show you how he feels, sometimes you have to do some sleuthing of your own.At the same time, this can feel scary because what if you are trying to see signs where there aren’t any?
Sometimes this manifests itself in extreme confidence, which is really just fronting.
Other times the nerves are overwhelming and a guy becomes quiet.
This is still a form of reaching out, and not an effort he would be making if he had no interest.
It could be that having some introductory, getting-to-know-you chats digitally will give him the confidence required to take things to a more personal level.
When you like someone, your powers of coordination and general cool demeanor can temporarily abandon you.
Even the most confident of men can fall victim to this universal feeling.(Make sure to also read this article on body language signs that mean he definitely likes you.) For a mode of communication that requires no physical contact or words, eye contact can be surprisingly intimate.We’ve all been caught staring at someone and then attempted to smoothly look past them to something else, as if that’s what we intended all along.MORE: The Biggest Signs He’s Flirting With You It seems to be a key scene in many romantic comedies – guy meets girl, guy trips over banana peel, and girl is secretly charmed.You can replace “banana peel” with any number of klutzy moves, but the idea remains the same.This excessive nervousness could also cause him to avoid eye contact or take a few steps away from you.