I never thought about it while she was living here because she had little/no chances to be unsupervised with boys but now i wish i would have brought it up because eventually she's going to be on her own and need to know how to protect herself ugh !
we still talk occasionally and we still have the same agency cw I wonder if there's an appropriate way to bring that up ????? Her health, safety and future rely on the information she gets from the people who love her.
She needs to be protected from MORE than pregnancy.
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While I hope she waits, I am also realistic and will make sure she has birth control. They go to different high schools and he lives about 30 minutes away so I can somewhat monitor when they see each other. My advice is just to be really involved and to make sure they have a lot of activities.
My FD is a singer so she has a lot of singing/dancing lessons as well as therapy, family therapy, etc. As a high school teacher, I see kids getting into trouble whom are bored.
You get permission from the agency for whatever kind of arrangement they want to set up. She will probably be driving by herself by the time she is 17 so will renegotiate rules then.
We haven't had any experience with that yet, though. I monitor the computer with a keystroke recording system (we had a lot of trust issue violations in the beginning but now things are great), so I know what websites she's visiting and who she's talking to.Our agency requires us to kind of make a plan for dating.The kids have to be trustworthy, loyal, brave, etc etc! She can do group dating (movies, etc.) but I meet the kids. She is taking driver's ed and still has to pass to get her permit.She wants to do it - it's not me making her do it.Please, please, please tell me that somebody has given this young woman birth control.Yes, she still could but I've found if you keep them busy with stuff they love, that helps out a lot.