If you gave her a nickname when you met her then that’s fine, but only use nicknames if it’s already an insider joke between the two of you, otherwise it’ll appear like you’ve totally forgotten her. Some guys will lose their mind staring at their phone waiting for her to reply, and when she does they’ll rush to pick it up and reply with something daft and incoherent.
Read on to discover the 21 shocking mistakes men make when texting girls, so you can stop burning numbers and start getting dates! Text her immediately after getting her number – within fifteen minutes after you meet her is good.And stick around, because even if you’ve made a bunch of these mistakes already, I’ll give you the solutions to turn everything back around. Even better, text her when you’re right in front of her.If you’re at the office and she texts you early afternoon, wait until you finish work. Love Panky talked more about picking the right time to text her here. It just ain’t cool and she won’t think you care about her if you don’t get back until the next day.If you do reply to her one day later don’t be surprised if she doesn’t text back because you simply don’t deserve it. It’s ok to continue an ongoing joke you had going when you met her, but if you stick to the same joke for too long, it’ll get old.What the above demonstrates is neediness and we discovered neediness to be one of the biggest attraction killers when we interviewed 100 single women. Even if she replies to any of these types of messages she’s only doing it out of politeness at first before she puts a restraining order on you! Your close friends might enjoy the occasional monologue but to a girl you’ve yet to date, they will only make them think you’ve got issues and are needy.
No one wants to have to scroll through dozens of words to get to a point that could have been conveyed in just a few. After you read the 21 mistakes I’ll give you the solutions…Since using this rule, I now never get those “first text blues” and you if you stick to this rule you won’t either!There’s no excuses for falling into the friend zone and even if you think it’s impossible to answer some of her texts with anything other than a friend to friend response then you’re wrong. You might think the only possible answer you can give is “it’s going great, how’s yours”, but instead, this is the perfect opportunity to tease her: “clearly it’s going much better than yours! This way, she’ll probably reply by saying, “nah, mine’s way, way better than yours” and from there you can move into a much more playful frame. Don’t try too hard to act aloof and indifferent all the time.Sure, it’s cool to be cool, but if you’re too cool, you’ll cool her off. If you don’t show any emotions she’ll think you’re not interested in her. If you got a text from someone you don’t know very well asking why you chose to become a lawyer, would you really be motivated to text them back?Your level of investment must either match or be lower than hers, so adapt to her texting style and respond in tune with her. To avoid slipping into the friend zone at all costs, avoid idle chit chat like the plague.