My boyfriend has a online dating profile

Don't get me wrong: In your shoes, I would be upset, but I think it's possible you can get through this.

From your question, I can tell that you two were together in the past.There was a period during which you two broke up, and now you are back together.I want to share with you that although your question is very short, I get a sense that you do not trust your boyfriend.I believe that trust is the main ingredient for a healthy relationship, and without it, the relationship becomes troublesome and both of the partners suffer.If he just looked, I think you can probably move past that temporary lapse in judgment, even though it's definitely hurtful and inappropriate.

But I'm still concerned about your relationship status.

Writes our anonymous reader: I recently saw my boyfriend's email inbox, (he checks his e-mail on my laptop and I'm usually right there) and while he was checking it, I glanced over and noticed e-mails from a XXX "match making" website.

Later on I went and checked out the website and his profile and was in complete shock at what I found.

I'm scared to argue over the phone about this so I investigated my leads and found his profile to be deactivated but that still doesn't necessarily demonstrate his intentions on those sites.

I'll be seeing him in less than a week for the first time in months to celebrate our four-year anniversary, and I don't know what to do and how I should address it assuming I even mention it.

I'm scared this might be the end of our perfect love."Oof. I should point out that our friends at How About We do have services for couples, not just singles…but I can't really explain away Tinder, so I think you're right to be concerned.