Can they save a relationship, or are they a sign that a break-up is a right around the bend? You can get him back, but you need to know a few things.
Have confidence that even if this relationship doesn’t work out, you will find another that will. If he feels sure that you’ll be there whenever he’s ready to come back, he can take all the time he needs.Don’t let yourself get walked on and don’t let him string you along…he wants that…it makes him feel secure…and it does nothing but prolong your hurt in the process. In the meantime, go about your life and try to enjoy it without him in it.Maybe he’ll go to the gym, maybe he’ll go out with his friends, maybe he’ll devote himself to his job, anything to make him feel like he’s back on top.While he’s working on putting himself back together, the worst thing his girl can do is fall apart and burden him with constant texts and questions.It’s not that You also can’t bug him for reassurance that he’s gonna come back and the relationship will resume.
Instead, use that time to focus on other areas of your life. Confidence is a huge turn on for a guy and whether you’re a guy or a girl, you always want what you can’t have.One great way to do this is to incorporate your favorite relevant quotes, sayings, poems, scriptures, or jokes.Whether your speech is funny or sentimental, whether you’re the maid of honor, the groom, or the mother of the bride – there’s something for you here.Editor’s Note: A little while back, I was having a conversation online with a close guy friend of mine about “breaks.” As we learned from Ross on “Friends,” the rules of being on a break can get murky and may wind up costing you your entire relationship.Being on a break is different for men and women because men and women are very different when it comes to relationships in general… The conversation I was having with my friend got so interesting and enlightening, I asked him to elaborate further on the subject and took our exchange and turned it into an entire article. Whenever a guy says he wants a “break” or some time to just “chill for a bit,” it usually means he’s feeling stressed or overwhelmed by the relationship and needs time to work things out on his own.In a relationship it’s easy to let other areas of your life slip away and a break is a good time to re-build those areas.