I posted the photo because it catches people's attention." 10.
Photographs They say a picture's worth a thousand words—and those words are likely to be lies if the picture's on an online dating profile. Toma says in self-reports, in which study participants admitted to their own lies, "photographs were identified as the single most deceptive element of the person's profile." Yes, some were unintentionally misleading, thanks to poor camera quality and lighting, but others were purposefully altered through digital editing to be more flattering. "One should be a good head shot, another a full body shot and another of you doing something interesting," she says.
Digital technology and smartphones in particular have transformed many aspects of our society, including how people seek out and establish romantic relationships.
Here, we examine the most frequent fabrications, how to spot them in others' profiles and why they're not worth including in yours. Height Both sexes tell tall tales, but men are more than twice as likely to (literally) stretch the truth.
Twenty-two percent of guys and 10% of women in the Beautiful poll admitted to fibbing here. The UW/Cornell study measured participants in person and found more than 50% were untruthful about their heights in their online profiles, with guys fibbing "significantly more." Who can blame them?
Think his online dating profile sounds too good to be true?
There's reason to be suspect: Most people are dishonest on dating sites.
Physique If it seems like the majority of men on dating sites describe themselves as "athletic and toned," your eyes aren't fooling you—though the guys may be hoping that description will.
Photos and activities are better gauges of how in shape your fellow onlie dater is (although as you'll soon see, be careful there as well).
"Some clever women downplay their intelligence," says Hodge. "I once took a woman camping because I remembered her profile said she enjoyed it," says Jonathan, a 39-year-old online dater in San Antonio, TX.
Ettin sees this with her female clients, but she encourages them to tell the truth. Hobbies and Interests "There's a lot of ambiguity users take advantage of," notes Dr. For example, Match.com's Interests section allows members to check boxes next to sports, but "it doesn't specify if this is something you do often, did in the past or just watch on television," says Dr. So even those who went ice skating one or twice might check that as an interest. "I hate camping, but I wanted to take her because I was into her. Connections to Celebrities Perhaps the most interesting finding of the Beautiful survey was that 3.3% of people said they lied in their profiles about knowing celebrities, and 3.7% said they lied about meeting famous people through work.
The same study shows shorter women get the attention, so it's ill-advised to pad your numbers.2.
Weight "People lie to embellish themselves, but not be liars," says Catalina Toma, Ph D, an assistant professor of communication science who conducted the UW/Cornell study.
"Weight fluctuates to some degree," which is why it's a popular characteristic about which to fib.